Be Happy As You Want To Be

Happiness is actually found in everyone, increasing it is a way to make life more wonderful and also more healthy. Believe or not, to be happy is relatively easy, just decide to be a happy person. There are several ways by which you can do this.

The following tips provide practical suggestions that you can use to help you shift into more positive thinking patterns:

Take Care of Yourself

It is much easier to be positive when you are eating well, exercising, and getting enough rest. Feel alive – run, jog, walk and do other things that your body was made for.

Be Grateful With Attitude

Life’s daily stresses and challenges do not seem quite as bad when you are constantly reminding yourself of the things that you should be grateful for. Take time out each day to stop and appreciate.

Stop Negative Thoughts

Your thoughts cannot hold any power over you if you do not let  them. If you notice yourself having a negative thought, detach from it, witness it, and do not follow it.

Stop Making Assumptions

A fear of not being liked or accepted sometimes leads us to assume that we know what others are thinking, but our fears are usually not reality. Do not waste time worrying that you did something wrong unless you have proof that there is something to worry about.

If you have a fear that a friend or family member’s bad mood is due to something you did, or that your co-workers are secretly gossiping about you when you turn your back, speak up and ask them.

Increase Social Activity

Social networks or relationships are essential to happiness. By increasing social activity, you decrease loneliness. Surround yourself with healthy, happy people, and their positive energy will affect you in a positive way.

Expand Your Mind

Learning is not only a joyful exercise, it also expands and broadens our horizons. And it could also present future opportunities. Try and learn something new everyday.

Get That Loving Feeling

You do not have to be an expert to know the benefits of a good hug. Positive physical contact with friends, loved ones, and even pets, is an instant pick-me-up.

Express your feelings, affections, friendship and passion to people around you. They will most likely reciprocate your actions. Try not to keep pent up anger of frustrations, this is bad for your health. Instead find ways of expressing them in a way that will not cause more injury or hurt to anyone.

Combat Rumination

Rumination is like hyper-focus on something negative. It is never productive, because it is not rational or solution-oriented, it is just excessive worry.

If you find yourself ruminating, a great way to stop it is to interrupt the pattern and force yourself to do something completely different.  Try changing your physical environment – go for a walk or sit outside. You could also call a friend, pick up a book, or turn on some music.

Volunteer

Everyone feels good after helping. You can volunteer your time, your money, or your resources. The more positive energy you put out into the world, the more you will receive in return.

Be Happy – Work!

Working hard brings tremendous personal satisfaction. It gives a feeling of being competent in finishing our tasks. Accomplishments are necessary for all of us, they give us a sense of value. Work on things that you feel worthy of your time.

Avoid Toxic Environments

Avoid exposure to negative elements like loud noises, toxins and hazardous places.

Time Management

Time is invaluable and too important to waste. The core basics of time management a list of rules that involves scheduling, setting goals, planning, creating lists of things to do and prioritising. Fine tune to give you the results you desire.

Laughter Is The Best Medicine

Laugh and laugh heartily everyday. Heard a good joke? Tell your friends or family about it.